Fact about rape

Women and men tend to zip up after a rape ordeal.They don't do this because they are happy about it or because its not affecting them,but its because of the societal behaviors. The hush talks behind your back whenever one passes by.Accusation that are never said to your face of how you deserved it or provoked i.
 Imagine when a woman comes out and says she has been raped!The stigma and the change in the Look. Well its even harder for a man, How can a man be raped?,He must have wanted for him to erect especially if he was raped by a woman.
 In today's woman world it is hard for a man to be hard especially on cases of rape because he is strong and nothing can break hi.
   Rape happens due to desire to dominate and control, it had never been about sexual attraction. The most asked question is if the victims do try to fight back so that it doesn't happen,the truth is anyone can be raped a police officer, a lawyer,a politician a doctor, a child,mentally and also physically disabled people.
There are believes among some women that men think with penis and not with their heads when it comes to sex and they can be aroused to a point of no return.The truth is men are able to physically stop any sexual activity regardless of the levels reached. Rape has never been about passion, love, attractions or even lust its a violent act that most do not just happen rather its pre planned.
Ever thought of why some men would assume that just because you went home with them on your first date you want sex, well men going home with you doesn't mean she wanna go all the way.Most of the rapes happen in dates about 75%.When you go home with her make sure you communicate and understand each other so that whatever you do you are both for it.Some people would think you only get raped when you walk alone in the alley and by a total stranger.Most rapes happen in institution like school and the victims know their attackers either casually or very well. People are raped in their sleep,when under the influence of alcohol or drugs.Rapists will at times do it when drunk and hence don't use protection but either way they must face the law.
 A well known case is when people will say that a woman will dress provocative and end up being raped.its a lie. A rapist will look for vulnerable and easy target, and this only help the perpetrator into feelings great and the victim feeling guilty for causing such a thing on themselves.