Sunday, 24 August 2014

Am sure when you read this you will either curse me or embrace my view. Every thing as one head wheather an animal or a human being,to date have never had the chance to encounter a two headed man or animal though I have had stories of their existence.If I come accross one am sure it would scare my heart to missing a few beats till I get composer or I would thing an becoming hallucid probably wet my pants,I have know that anything with two heads is a beast and beast are scary thing the can kill,disable or eat you.There now you see my reason for wetting my pant,I dont want to die young have along way to go"am waiting to see if I will be the President". Well am sure you want to read a beast tale but unfortunately I don't have one,but I have Something that you have never viewed as a beast and you live with it every day,marriage!yes I Said marriage.From the very beginning a man was the head of the house,even before the coming of the white man in Africa,traditional Americans also had the same set up.The man provided Made sure that his family never lack and so the wife was submissive and whatever the man Said was final.He made decision for the family and to every angle he had a right to do so. Men,father.were highly respected and the did their best to earn that respect they made sure Nothing happened to lower their post. Back to my beast.Just like night happens and day light comesfamily turned to be a den not Of alcohol but it was slowly rearing a new animal.Men would neglect their wives and since these women did not have financial support the hanged on for the sake of the children,men knew what they had and the held it dearly.Women became frastrated and had to provide for their children they couldn't watch as they went hungry,they started with what they produced in their farm.It became a routine and as men used their cash in other business women realised the freedom of money,they no longer needed their husband for money and now they could even do more than their men.When men came home they were no longer adored nothing was asked from them life went on without them and the submissive wife was long gone she had hersay and nolonger felt the need to be loyal. Whatever was needed in the family she could provide and was a better home manager than her husband.You know the concept that women can do better what a man can,Yep she take the responsibility of a wife and a provider.While the man is away the wife is compesaating his abscense to the kids and making sure they never feel the gap left. As much as men wanna sit and say women changed and no longer treat them with respect here is the truth over the years men have been digging their own graves and now when its deep enough and they can no longer get out they shout for help