celebral paralysis

I was drawn to tears today. I have always thought am strong and nothing can break me to tears,but today my heart proved me wrong.

(in red)celebral palsy ambassador

    Why was I born normal? even though as a child a always thought my big eyes were a disability till I can't take my eyes off them for they just compliment me,that aside.I had a rare chance to interact with disabled children this afternoon infact cerebral paralysis it was a moment I reflected back and said a small thankyou prayer to my God. This children go though alot, most of them will never talk neither walk,they might never have a chance to play like normal kids, others might be in diapers for the rest of their lives.

Kevin Oloo

      It was a mind opening opportunity for me I looked at my legs from a different angle,my bass voice i so much appreciated it, my backbone is a blessing because it Can sit and stand upright, I can control my bowel movement and express myself well.

        It really difficult for the parents of these children because its hard to handle them, physically therapy and other therapies which at times can be costly, special diet .some of these children cannot even chew food,they take it mushed or blended.
  I got to meet a special girl who is an ambassador of cerebral paralysis at Donholm, she encouraged me alot. Through afew strangers who came together and one lady from Dubai who had a heart bigger than life she donated a wheelchair and though all the efforts alot was donated and promises made.

Faith on her new wheelchair

Faith tries her new sweater

A lady's Handbag

I guess we have heard and read on magazines, blogs, newspapers and even watched on TVs on what a lady should carry in her handbag.Whereas all those things make us look fabulous and make our lives easier,they endanger our lives,some men are on our case big time and they want to tamper with us and making our lives harder.
   Ladies lemme give you tips that are unofficial and can help when someone messes with you

      1.Coconut
Never leave the house with a coconut. You can snack on it while hungry and heat a mugger with it and before he knows what happened you are gone
.       2.pebbles
Always have several pebbles in your bag. It makes is heavy in that when you swing it at someone he/she will feel the impact and you will get a chance to escape
.        3.pepper spray /doom
When you encounter someone dangerous you can spray them in the eyes and when they loose site you run for your life. Doom is great because it will also help kill mosquitoes and other bugs that might invade your home.polish remover can also work well
.     4.Flat shoes
You need flat shoes so as to change after that guy attacks you and you beat the hell out of them with you heels and you can't wear them anymore.
      5.dog chain
Its is helpful when you got to hit someone really hard. And when you go to your boyfriends place and you don't have handcuffs.

Fact about rape

Women and men tend to zip up after a rape ordeal.They don't do this because they are happy about it or because its not affecting them,but its because of the societal behaviors. The hush talks behind your back whenever one passes by.Accusation that are never said to your face of how you deserved it or provoked i.
 Imagine when a woman comes out and says she has been raped!The stigma and the change in the Look. Well its even harder for a man, How can a man be raped?,He must have wanted for him to erect especially if he was raped by a woman.
 In today's woman world it is hard for a man to be hard especially on cases of rape because he is strong and nothing can break hi.
   Rape happens due to desire to dominate and control, it had never been about sexual attraction. The most asked question is if the victims do try to fight back so that it doesn't happen,the truth is anyone can be raped a police officer, a lawyer,a politician a doctor, a child,mentally and also physically disabled people.
There are believes among some women that men think with penis and not with their heads when it comes to sex and they can be aroused to a point of no return.The truth is men are able to physically stop any sexual activity regardless of the levels reached. Rape has never been about passion, love, attractions or even lust its a violent act that most do not just happen rather its pre planned.
Ever thought of why some men would assume that just because you went home with them on your first date you want sex, well men going home with you doesn't mean she wanna go all the way.Most of the rapes happen in dates about 75%.When you go home with her make sure you communicate and understand each other so that whatever you do you are both for it.Some people would think you only get raped when you walk alone in the alley and by a total stranger.Most rapes happen in institution like school and the victims know their attackers either casually or very well. People are raped in their sleep,when under the influence of alcohol or drugs.Rapists will at times do it when drunk and hence don't use protection but either way they must face the law.
 A well known case is when people will say that a woman will dress provocative and end up being raped.its a lie. A rapist will look for vulnerable and easy target, and this only help the perpetrator into feelings great and the victim feeling guilty for causing such a thing on themselves.

a letter to my next seat psv neighbour

To my next seat neighbour,
First of I want to apologise for all those times you sat next to me and said Hi,but I never replied.
I am not rude but I just prefer to shut up before you drug me and steal the little cash I hustle for.It was someone like you who stole my whole month salary and a phone I had saved for 2years to buy nights I had gone without a proper meal just to have that phone.I used to be nice and friendly I helped a stranger like you to pick his keys and coins only to realize he did it intentionally so as to steal from me.He said hi just like you, small talked me, knowing very well he was preparing me for my death.
A person like you is the one who drug people rob them and leave them for their death,I wish I could trust you but when you set your eyes on my phone I just think you will steal it, you maybe a friend but I view you As an enemy.
You may just be a rapist waiting for a victim and since I don't wanna be one that is why I can't afford a Hi back to you.
I view you my next seat neighbor in a public transport vehicle with lots of suspicion.

Edi Gathengi

He is a Kenyan born artist who have made a name in Hollywood, he will soon hit the theatre, in a new upcoming comedy movie Aloha.
He recently landed a role in justified which has a home in cable Television Channel Fx.He will act alongside Bradley Cooper who is fresh from his role American Sniper also actors and actresses like Aloe Baldwin, Bill Murray, Emma Stone, Danny McBride,John Lesson.
The movie will open against a heavy favourite to top the box office on that weekend -quake thriller san-Adreas,starring Dwayne Johnson aka The Rock