Delilah is a name I call those that hate on others for nothing .I have had this hate for quiet a while and although I will keep the name, i will change my feeling towards them though. The reasons for changing my mindset are not educational. I was seated on a couch in a hotel lobby when I was joined by a few strangers. After the usual pleasantries of whether they should join me on the couch, i nodded in agreement. I hate people! one of them remarked and as it is that humans are social each gave a contribution and I also said the same, but as we were talking and everyone was at ease with each other i realized something I looked at it from all angles then realized i did not hate people neither did those that we were seated with me, because at the end of the day we were people sitting next to each other, enjoying each others company. Those that hate people are not weird rather their expectations on those people are quiet high - they expect people to perform and when they do not they hate. This ˜hater meet a person for the first time and their expectations are really high but one minor mistake wanes all that. A negative attitude is developed and eventually a wall is built in between. The only way to win them back is if they˜hated â person performs exceptionally high in the eyes of the ˜hater.
These people that hate have this weakness because they have high expectations or they are not themselves much liked, they are there first critics - they never give themselves a break. To conclusively prove that they do not hate, this people have parents, they work in places where they interact with people, and some even have there own families who they definitely love. These people seem distant, but they are soft and fibble inside, they show there weaknesses once they get a person who proves himself/herself to them, they warm up to them and even try to be their friends. I will retain the name Delilah for the lack of a better term but definitely my attitude towards these people has changed positively.